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im not sayin u should wife me up but … i do cook pretty well
-homemade swedish meatballs
-mashed potatoes
-marinated cucumbers
-green peas
-lingon berry sauce
-homemade gravy

im not sayin u should wife me up but … i do cook pretty well

-homemade swedish meatballs

-mashed potatoes

-marinated cucumbers

-green peas

-lingon berry sauce

-homemade gravy

no sleep + no eye makeup = mugshot of a 12 yr old drug addict 

no sleep + no eye makeup = mugshot of a 12 yr old drug addict 

There was this post on reddit that’s made it’s way across the rest of the internet and even on to radio shows and tv talk shows - it’s the one where the woman shared the spreadsheet her husband sent her that recorded all of the times she’s turned him down for sex (the date and word for word excuse included). According to the sheet, they’ve only had sex 3 times in 7 weeks. My local radio station did a segment on the spreadsheet and shared it on Facebook for everyone to discuss and the comments are, in lack of a better phrase, rustling my jimmies. There’s a handful of men with comments like, “At least he’s getting some once or twice a month, that’s more than my wife will do!” and then there’s men and women saying, “well if she won’t give it up in the bedroom he can surely find someone else that will.” OBVIOUSLY there’s more going on .. and no one knows the full story but it kind of pissed me off. I get that sex is an integral part of a relationship, especially in a marriage, but it is not the only thing that makes it work. There’s clearly a reason she’s making up the excuses and something tells me that a man who goes on a business trip and then sends a spreadsheet to his wife of all the times she’s turned him down for sex isn’t exactly charming emotionally. I don’t feel like your partner should be obligated to “give it up” every time you ask. Like, could he not have a conversation with his wife? His inept relationship skills seem like the real problem … not her lack of interest or drive. It says in all the articles that he’s a business guy who goes away a lot, and AGAIN i get that sex is an integral part of marriage but I don’t feel like you can neglect someone emotionally and then when you feel horny they should just cater to your every whim? That’s not hot. The couple clearly has a communication problem but it makes me upset to see all these people, mainly women saying more things like, “what a bitch! it’s your JOB as the girl in the relationship to please the man sexually”, “sex is like your one job next to cleaning, she can watch tv another time”, “even if she’s not in the mood for sex she should just get over it … they’re married so she should do it for her husband” “she’s not self conscious the slut is obviously cheating, 26 year olds should be fucking like bunnies! he should get it from someone else and give her a taste of her own medicine” 

TL;DR: sending your wife a spreadsheet about the times she’s turned you down for sex - who in turn ended up posting the spreadsheet to the internet is not a good form of communication 

EEESH

i hate that i sincerely like and am drawn to everything that is considered kitschy. I cant enjoy the beat poets w/o feeling like an asshole

I came out to have a good time and i am honestly feelin so attacked right now

I came out to have a good time and i am honestly feelin so attacked right now